🎁 The Gift of Travel: The Who, What, Why and How 🎁

I love Christmas and am 1,000% on board with the joy of giving.

I also have 3 kids and know how the joy of giving can suck you (and your bank account) dry. You know the joy of giving I’m talking about..the one that leaves you weeping your last remaining tears in the PS4 aisle at Target because they are out of NBA19 and you needed just one more gift to even things out. 😢

This joyous feeling is what prompted me to rethink Christmas gifts for my kids a few years ago. I’m hoping I can save someone the agony of toys and items still sitting in boxes in February because you possibly bought things to buy them, not necessarily because they were wanted (no judging here, I still do it every year).

Here it is…give the gift of travel!

I know. I know you might be thinking that sounds complicated, out of your budget, and really difficult to wrap, right? 😉

No worries.. I have the answers.

The Who: Children are top of my list. We have given our kids large trips 2 out of the past 4 years and my kids STILL talk about them being their favorite gifts. Multi-generational family members are also a fantastic choice to receive a git of travel.

The What: Any trip from an overnight out of town to a cruise, an all-inclusive vacation, or Disney. Honestly, any trip that will allow you to make memories as a family, either big or small.

The Why: I’m going to say it, and I think as someone who has fallen into the deep pit -I mean joy- of giving, I think I can: the endless gifts and things are ALL TOO MUCH. Even now at 12 and 10 my kids lists are insane. They think Christmas is a free for all and nothing is off-limits to ask for. Yep. I’ll shoulder a good portion of the blame. We had great intentions before our kids were born and then that first year you become Santa all good intentions are shot to heck with your common sense and your Visa balance. Now, years later we’re working on backpedaling and changing how Christmas goes down around here. So back to the why. The why is simple: the stuff and the things do not last. Very few kids can remember what they received for Christmas by March. So, why not give an experience and memories that I PROMISE they will not forget.

The How: The how you give it is really up to you. We have given the gift of travel for Christmas two different ways.

The first time was a trip to Disney. The kids each received a few gifts and then they began opening Disney related items. For example, my daughter collects snow globes, so she got a Disney globe, they opened Disney socks, Disney notepads (I got at the Dollar Tree!) and a few other small things. They finally realized something was going on and asked if we were going to Disney. At that moment, the didn’t even care about the gifts they opened before they found out!

The second time was a cruise. The last gift the kids opened was a small box which began a scavenger hunt. Each box contained a large puzzle piece and once they had all the boxes they had to put the puzzle together to find out what the gift was. They had so much fun searching and assembling together! I just ordered a puzzle of a picture I created and came up with fun rhymes.

The physical HOW of booking and giving a trip is simple. Most people do not realize that you can book almost any trip with a deposit and make payments. So, now is the time to think about a trip for next Christmas. Speak with your travel agent (or me, if you don’t have one 😁), decide on a trip and book it! Pay on it all year and you will be ready for next year! We’re already planning our next one. 🏝

To wrap this all up, my kids STILL talk about our trips. On our cruise our kids got a glimpse into how people live in another country. A country where plugging in iPads isn’t top priority. It was a great experience for them and we had an amazing time. Our kids STILL talk about the cruise more than anything else. They will remember both of these trips forever. This is another reason multigenerational trips are a wonderful idea. Grandparents and grandchildren sharing experiences is the best gift you can give to everyone. 💗

Happy shopping!

Our Scavenger Hunt

Theme Park Etiquette

It’s that time of year. You know the time..we pack up the car and hit the closest amusement park (hoping) for a fun filled day of rides, smiles, and family fun!  As much fun as amusement parks are, there are going to be meltdowns (by adults and their children 😉) and long lines to wait in for rides, food and the bathrooms. 

Here are some tips to make the day more enjoyable for you and all the other guests in the park:

1. Be patient. If you are going to an amusement park during season, you have GOT to go expecting to wait in lines. Grumbling, complaining or being rude about waiting is not only making your trip less enjoyable, the happy family behind you doesn’t need to listen to your stinky attitude. 😱

2. No pushing or jostling other guests. This bears repeating-Do Not Push People. Please give people their space while waiting in line. Nobody wants to feel someone else’s sweaty body pushing against them in line. 😷 Shoving people forward or crowding them doesn’t get you on a ride any faster. 

3. Walking the right way. My kids learned the phrase “on the right to be polite in school” and this applies in theme parks (as well as malls or any place where people are walking). If you try to stay on the right hand side you will (hopefully) avoid walking into people or feeling like a salmon swimming upstream. 

4. Stopping in the walkways.  I love my cell phone as much as the next person, but if you want to send a text, upload a picture to social media or check your map app, please MOVE TO THE SIDE and do not just stop while you are walking. This could cause people to walk into the back of you or, even worse, have a stroller slam into your heels. 😲

5. Watch your language.  There are kids of all ages in the parks. They do not need to hear about your drunken escapades from the night before or the f-bomb peppering every sentence you’re speaking. Be respectful of the people around you-making fun of people makes YOU look bad. So just don’t do it. 👍🏻

6. Be prepared for meltdowns. From your children and your own! As much fun as a theme park is, it is also a long, hot and overwhelming day. We cannot expect our kids to be perfect all day, anymore than we can expect not to have our own moments. Just try to handle it as best you can, give a hug and a smile, let it go and move on!

7. DO NOT BLOCK CHILDREN. This is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. If you are at a park (or anywhere for that matter) and there are children waiting to watch a parade, or other show that requires you to stand, and children have been waiting DO NOT SQUEEZE YOURSELF IN FRONT OF THEM. I honestly cannot believe this even needs to be stated, but it happens over and over. Little Suzy has been standing there for an hour waiting to watch The Main Street Electrical Parade at Disney only to have adults squeeze in front of her. STOP DOING THAT RIGHT NOW. What kind of monster blocks a kid from seeing a parade so they can watch it?! 😠

8.  Stay with your group in lines. It’s super frustrating to have 6 people jostle their way past you because the rest of their party got in line 30 minutes ago and have been “holding” their spots. 

9.  Diaper changing. I get the frustration of needing to change diapers. I have three children with two of them being twins. So, I have changed my fair share of diapers. Please try to find an appropriate place to change diapers. Generally a diaper change is not an emergency situation so keep your eyes open for bathrooms.  I have seen people change their children on tables in food courts and picnic tables. 😳 Who knows if those tables will be wiped down before the next person sits down with their tray. 

9.  Smile! Remember that you are there to have fun and make memories with your family. Do not let the handful of grumpy or rude guests ruin your special day!

☀️Heather